About the Contributor
This story was written by Ange Dion, shared as part of The Impactful Voice Project™ — One Voice. Infinite Impact.™
Ange Dion is a mentor and speaker with lived experience in health transformation, resilience, and mindset change. Born in Greece and raised in Australia, she supports people to reclaim confidence, wellbeing, and self-belief through sustainable, experience-led change.
🔸 Category: Personal Stories
🔸 Country: Australia
🔸 Connect: https://linktr.ee/angedionconsulting
Why this story matters:
This story matters because it refuses the shortcut narrative.
In a world obsessed with quick fixes, Ange Dion’s lived experience reminds us that real transformation is not dramatic, instant, or glamorous — it is built slowly, through consistency, support, and self-belief. Her story doesn’t centre weight loss as an endpoint. It centres choice. The choice to keep going. The choice to listen to the body. The choice to heal what sits underneath behaviour, not just manage symptoms.
What makes this story powerful is its honesty. Ange names the quiet realities many people live with but rarely say out loud — the shame of public spaces, the shrinking of confidence, the exhaustion of trying again and again. She doesn’t position herself as an expert looking back from the finish line, but as a woman still choosing health, still showing up, still committed.
This story also matters because it reframes success. Freedom is found in crossing your legs on a plane, standing taller on a stage, wearing colour again, and trusting your body. These are not small wins. They are evidence of reclaimed agency.
For The Impactful Voice Project™, this story embodies why lived experience belongs at the centre of change. It shows that when people speak from truth — not theory — others feel seen, understood, and less alone.
Ange’s story isn’t about perfection.
It’s about permission.
And that permission can change a life.
KEY POINTS
- Transformation begins with mindset, not the scale
- Consistency and support create sustainable change
- Healing the “why” matters more than quick fixes
- Real freedom shows up in everyday life, not just numbers
- Choosing yourself is an ongoing, life-long decision
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A Real-Life Journey of Mindset, Consistency & Confidence
Why I’m Sharing My Journey
This year (2026) marks three years of my transformation.
I’ve been sharing my wins on social media not to brag, but to inspire people like me who have struggled with countless diets, weight loss programs, insulin resistance, PCOS, perimenopause, mental health, and anxiety due to their appearance.
Transformation isn’t just about losing weight, it’s about reclaiming your life. It’s about health, functional movement, confidence, and finally feeling free in your body.
This story is raw, honest, and real. It’s filled with sweat, tears, self-doubt, and countless moments when I nearly gave up but also incredible triumphs that changed how I see myself and the world.
I want you to read this book through my eyes.
To know that I understand you because I’ve been there.

I’ve hated mirrors.
I’ve hidden behind clothes.
I’ve avoided photos and fun.
I’ve been “the big one” in every group photo. →
But I’m here to tell you something:
CHANGE IS POSSIBLE.
MINDSET MATTERS.
SUPPORT IS EVERYTHING.
YOU CANNOT DO IT ALONE
AND YOU DON’T HAVE TO.
By the end of this book, I hope you’ll see that transformation isn’t just about weight. It’s about taking back your life, putting yourself first, making choices that serve your future self, and believing, truly believing, that you deserve it.
The Early Struggle
I was born in Greece and raised in Australia where food is love and celebration.
My mum is an incredible cook and baker, so our home always smelled like the local bakery or a restaurant.
I was a skinny little girl until age seven. I had my tonsils removed and ice cream and jelly became my daily diet after surgery. Back in those days this was the process after surgery.
That’s when everything changed.
Dessert became breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and unfortunately, I didn’t stop this from becoming a habit. Green vegies I wasn’t a fan of, so it was easier to just keep eating the wrong foods. And sweets tasted better.
From then on, I was always “the big kid.”
My classmates teased me, calling me Patata (potato). It stuck for years, and though I can laugh about it now, it carved deep scars that shaped my confidence.
By my teens, I was over 115 kilos.
I tried every diet you can think of — low-carb, keto, intermittent fasting, detox teas — and each one failed me. Or rather, I failed myself, because I was chasing quick fixes instead of healing the real issue.
FOOD WASN’T JUST FOOD.
IT WAS LOVE, COMFORT, AND ESCAPE.
I DIDN’T SHARE MY FOOD.
ICE CREAM WAS MY THERAPY.
After my first marriage ended, I hit 130 kilos.
I consulted a Specialist and had surgery and was one of the early gastric band patients in 2001.
I lost some weight, 45 kilos. I went from 159.7, managed to get down to 120 and stayed there for years. I never worked on the root cause, and didn’t get to double digits until later on in life.
For 18 years, I was up and down, never quite breaking free.
Then came a second divorce, physical injuries from exercise, and the spiral started again. The band was no longer working. It was supposed to be removed 10 years after being inserted, and I had this in there for 21 years.
I counted calories, had several blood tests, even used Optifast for 5 months of this year and nothing was working.
I hit 142 kilos and my body was breaking down and nothing I did was helping. Anxiety, depression, and embarrassment were here to stay and all I wanted to do was hide.
Clothes didn’t fit.
Airplane seats felt smaller.
My confidence shrank.
I hated going out. People looked at me all the time. Café chairs were uncomfortable and I began to recluse.
That’s when I realised:
THIS ISN’T LIVING.
I was trying — even when my body couldn’t keep up yet.
I showed up. I moved how I could.
This wasn’t failure.
It was effort without the right support.
The Turning Points
I weighed 142 kilos and barely made it up the mountain.
At one point my heart was racing so fast and pounding through my chest, my mouth was dry and I was dizzy, and I thought I might die right there.
I remember thinking I am not going to make it back home, I am never going to see my family again.
That was my first wake-up call.
Then came another — my goddaughter’s wedding announcement:
“Nona, I am getting married in Greece!”
Everyone had to wear white.
And I thought, “I refuse to stand beside her looking like a tent.”
That thought became my driver.
I was determined to be thinner by her wedding day.
In February 2022, I attended a retreat in Mullumbimby, NSW.
We were doing a 4-day water fast, meditations, morning yoga and stretching, hikes, and emotional work.
I had my gastric band removed and six months later I underwent a gastric bypass surgery. The process was gruelling. I spent 16 weeks healing my body with a liquid diet, soups and soft food, but I did it with a mindset I’d never had before.
I listened to the doctor and the dietitian and was an angel patient because I was determined to get this right.
I turned 50 that year.
My body ached.
My confidence crashed.
I hated what I saw in the mirror.
I had truly lost myself and knew there was a long journey to double digits.
I wasn’t chasing “skinny.”
I was chasing FREEDOM.
The Hard Work Behind Transformation
I built a team — my mindset coach, dietitian, surgeon, partner, and family — who helped me rebuild not just my body, but my mindset.
After surgery all I was allowed to do was walk and I did this for 12 months.
I went to the gym and walked on the treadmill and cycled five times a week and walked everywhere I could in between.
I can tell you how much I hated this. I was no fan of exercise unless it was dancing or singing — I was out!
Transformation is NOT glamorous.
It’s messy, emotional, and slow.
But every small act of consistency counts.
I started losing weight and centimetres and clothing sizes and started to feel better.
Let me tell you size 22-24 and 26 were in my wardrobe and I wanted to get out of these clothes asap!
Consistency over perfection.
From 142 kilos to 80 kilos, I became a different woman.
Not just physically, but mentally and emotionally.
And I am not done yet.
Real-Life Wins & Everyday Challenges
Let’s start with something simple but deeply personal: airplanes.
If you’ve ever been overweight, you know the anxiety that starts the moment you book a flight.
Will the seatbelt fit?
Will I spill over into someone else’s space?
Will I need an extender?
Will people stare?
I’ve lived that reality. Sitting in a standard economy seat without wide legroom was torture. My body didn’t fit comfortably, and neither did my confidence.
I spent entire flights tense, embarrassed, and counting the minutes until landing.
Now?
I sit comfortably.
I cross my legs.
I breathe.
I enjoy the journey.
That alone feels like freedom.
Then there’s stage confidence — something that surprised me the most.
Even though I’ve always been a speaker, presenter, and emcee, my weight quietly stole my confidence. There were times I felt okay, but the moment I stepped on stage in front of people, I became hyper-aware of my body.
I worried about how I looked, how I moved, how I was being perceived. I avoided being in videos. I avoided certain events.
I slowly started shrinking myself, even though my voice was meant to be heard.
I even stopped emceeing as I didn’t want people to have me in their wedding videos.
I started trusting my body again.
I stood taller.
I spoke with more authority.
I felt present instead of self-conscious.
Losing weight didn’t magically erase self-doubt overnight. But with every kilo lost, every habit built, and every promise I kept to myself, my confidence grew.
And then there’s clothing.
For years, I hid in black.
Black was safe.
Black was slimming.
Black helped me disappear.
Black was also corporate.
Now?
I wear colour.
I wear florals.
I walk into stores and no longer say, “I’m just looking.”
I try things on.
I enjoy fashion.
I express myself again.
These moments matter because they are real-life wins, not numbers on a scale.
Transformation shows up in everyday life:
how you sit,
how you walk,
how you speak,
how you show up in the world.
Small steps towards healthy living create big, lasting change.
And it’s these small victories that make transformation real.
Lessons Learned Along the Way
If I could sit across from you with a coffee and share what this journey has taught me, these would be the truths I’d want you to walk away with.
Change does not start in the kitchen or the gym.
It starts in your head.
Small habits compound.
Consistency beats extremes.
Food isn’t punishment or reward.
It’s fuel for you to keep going.
Movement isn’t about burning calories.
It’s about staying strong, mobile, and functional.
Support matters.
Doing this alone is hard.
Celebrate wins.
Pain can be a teacher.
Every lesson came with effort, humility, and patience.
And every one of them brought me closer to the woman I am today.
The Outcome
Physically, my body is stronger now than it ever was when I was overweight. I move with ease. I have stamina. I feel capable and functional in my 50s — and that matters deeply to me.
Mentally, I’m free from the constant noise of self-doubt. I no longer negotiate with myself about showing up. I trust my decisions. I feel proud of the discipline and resilience I’ve built.
Spiritually, I feel aligned. Grounded. Connected to my purpose.
From 142 kilos down to 80 kilos, I am still working toward my goal. I have embraced my loose skin, every tear, every drop of sweat, every sacrifice that I had to make.
The habits I built aren’t temporary.
THEY ARE FOR LIFE.
I’ve chosen health.
I’ve chosen movement.
I’ve chosen myself.
And that choice has changed everything.
Final Words
OBESLIM isn’t about perfection.
It’s about awareness.
It’s about mindset.
It’s about consistency.
And most of all, it’s about choosing yourself again and again.
You are not broken.
You are not weak.
You are not too late.
Change is possible at any age, in any body, and from any starting point.
With love,
Ange Dion
A personal journey on the road to healthy, a real transformation with commitment and dedication to reduce my weight and be healthy and functional as I get older!
“I wasn’t chasing ‘skinny.’ I was chasing FREEDOM.”
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